Culture shock. We talk about it, study it, and plan for it, yet it seems to take us by surprise when it actually happens. One difficult thing for me was getting used to how the people we serve worship the Lord during their church services. Many of the practices just seemed so... hmm. I couldn't really put a “label” on them. After all, there was nothing un-Biblical about holding extremely long services, or dancing during worship, or crying, or speaking in tongues. All of those things happened in Bible times, so why not now? I realized that my “problem” with these differences stemmed from the fact that I was not accustomed to them.
A look into New Testament life shows that this struggle with differences in worship isn’t just a modern-day conflict. When Jesus met the Samaritan woman at the well, she was convinced that worship had to be done in a specific place, depending on one’s ethnic heritage. And throughout His entire ministry, Jesus constantly pushed back against the mindset of the religious leaders that worship had to be done in a certain way. If people didn’t follow the rules, then they weren’t worshiping “correctly”.
So how can we learn to worship God despite cultural differences that make us feel uncomfortable? I love Moses’ straightforward request when he faced yet another challenge in his ministry. After honestly expressing his bewilderment with God’s plan, he appealed to the LORD; “Now show me your glory.”
I haven’t employed Moses’ strategy perfectly in my cross-cultural worship experience, but I’ve been making a concentrated effort to do so recently. Rather than criticize a theologically shallow message or cringe as we sing the same out-of-tune chorus for the eighth time, I whisper to the Lord, “Show me your glory.”
While I have yet to see an immediate change in my physical environment - babies continue to cry, the singing is still out-of-tune, and the electric guitar is way too loud - I can feel the change in my heart. Jesus graciously brings me one step closer to the time “when the true worshipers will worship the Father in the Spirit and in truth” (John 4:23).
What have been some of your cross-cultural worship “hang-ups” and how have you learned to deal with them?
Besides what I mentioned in the devotional, I also struggle with the heavy emphasis on going to church every time there’s an opportunity… and believe me, there are lots! I’ve “made peace” with this idea by realizing that the culture here is very community-oriented. Rather than coming from a background where each Christian learns to build up his or her faith through personal devotions, people in this culture experience learning in community. That’s not how I was taught, but I’ve realized that it’s OK for them to thrive in situations where there are multiple opportunities to spend time with other Christians during the week. I’ve also learned that it’s OK for me to not feel obligated to be there every time.