Have you heard of Collateral Beauty? It’s the title of a movie I watched years ago. I’m not endorsing the movie but the title and the idea behind it grabbed my attention. The main character’s world is shattered after the death of his young daughter. As the years pass and he grieves, he is helped to see the collateral beauty… the good that has come from all the difficult. This was a secular interpretation of a promise that God offers to believers daily. Romans 8:28 says… “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose.”
Today was a hard day. Illness greatly affects my family and has for the last five years. But as I prayed and cried today and asked God again for healing, I remembered some of the situations that happened in just the last two months because of this illness. I remembered the woman I passed on the sidewalk. I couldn’t stay for the entire service at church that day and had to go home early. I passed this stranger on the sidewalk and noticed her tears. I turned around and walked to up to her. I gently said I noticed the tears and asked if I could do something. She explained simply that her heart was broken. I asked to pray for her and she said yes. So on the sidewalk, in the middle of this inner city we live in, I got to talk to Jesus with this lady whose heart was broken. After praying I asked if I could give her a hug. She said yes and she held on tight and long as she sobbed on my shoulder.
My pain has caused me to be comfortable with other people’s pain. My pain allowed me to be in that place at that moment to be Jesus’ arms to that woman. Collateral beauty. And I have other stories just like this one that wouldn’t have happened had I not been walking my broken journey with the pain that God, in His Sovereignty, is allowing. So be encouraged today that there is purpose in the pain. And that as we submit our pain and hurt to the Lord, He can bring good from it. Ask Him to open your eyes to show you the collateral beauty around you and be encouraged that you don’t walk the difficult road alone. He walks beside us and leads us. Trust Him to bring beauty from the pain.
As you look around you today, what gift of beauty do you see from God? It could be a smile from a neighbor, a text from a friend, an encouraging Bible verse, flowers blooming, the smell of freshly baked bread, a song, etc.
If I lived in the States, I think I would try to have a vegetable garden. I’ve missed not having that with my life overseas. This summer I decided to buy a couple tomatoes plants and try to grow them in pots outside my window. It is September when I write this and up until a week ago, my tomatoes were still green and small. A gardening friend from the States explained to me that it just doesn’t get hot enough where I live and I don’t get enough sunlight. However, this last week, we had record high temperatures! And guess what, several of the tomatoes turned red! It was a small gift from the Lord and my little red tomatoes are a gift of beauty.